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Preventing Abuse: Respite Care

Preventing Abuse: Respite Care

Parenting is hard! One of the most challenging jobs in the world, it requires patience, empathy, and the ability to ...
Preventing Abuse: An Overview

Preventing Abuse: An Overview

They say, “It takes a village to raise a child.” Children need people around them to provide a safe, healthy ...
Step Nine: Educate children about personal safety

Step Nine: Educate children about personal safety

No child abuse prevention plan is complete without a plan to reach out to the youth of the church with ...
Step Ten: Review and maintain your child protection program

Step Ten: Review and maintain your child protection program

A program is only effective when it is followed and evaluated. Once you have child abuse response and prevention protocols ...
Step Eight: Create guidelines for responding to abuse

Step Eight: Create guidelines for responding to abuse

Learning that a child has been abused while in the church’s care is a stressful situation, making good decisions more ...
Step Seven: Support abuse survivors

Step Seven: Support abuse survivors

More than one out of four people have experienced or are currently experiencing abuse, yet over half of all Protestant ...
Step Six: Train Adults in the Church

Step Six: Train adults to recognize and respond to abuse

Training the adults in the church is a vital step to keeping children safe. At a minimum every person who ...
Step Five: Implement Guidelines for Youth Leaders

Step Five: Implement Guidelines for Youth Leaders

Boundaries are important and keep people safe. The fence around a power plant is meant to keep people a safe ...
Adult and Minor Interactions

Sample Standards for Interactions with Minors and/or Vulnerable Adults

(Taken from virtusonline.org) Examples of appropriate contact with minors for Church programs include, but are not limited to: Verbal praise ...
Step 4 Assess Your Space

Step Four: Assess Your Space

Children need a safe environment in which they can learn God’s Word. Careful facility design is an important step to ...
Sample Site Assessment Checklist

Sample Site Assessment Checklist

This checklist is not exhaustive. It is meant to be a starting point and should be adapted to meet the ...
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Children with Problematic Sexual Behaviors

It is important to recognize the differences when dealing with sexual behavior of young people: “Recognizing and Responding to Developmentally ...
Talking Jesus With A Survivor (hands holding plant showing growth)

Talking Jesus With A Survivor

Child abuse does not only affect a child’s body and emotional health. It touches their spiritual health, too. A child ...
Working with Law Enforcement: The Investigation and Your Child (magnifying glass)

Working with Law Enforcement: The Investigation and Your Child

At some level we all realize that investigations in real life take longer than they do on television. Yet, parents ...
Working With Law Enforcement: Getting Started

Working With Law Enforcement: Getting Started

Some abuse is only discovered when a child talks to his or her parent about what happened. Hearing this in ...
Misbeliefs

Misbeliefs: I’m All Alone

Many survivors of childhood abuse report feelings of being alone in the world, that no one can understand them. These ...
Misbeliefs

Misbeliefs: It’s My Fault

Survivors of trauma, whether childhood abuse, sexual assault, or domestic abuse, share a belief that the abuse was their fault ...
Coping with Flashbacks

Coping with Flashbacks

People who have experienced trauma may experience flashbacks in their everyday lives. Flashbacks can be intense and bring back the ...
What Is A Trigger?

What Is A Trigger?

Experiencing a sudden onset of the feelings and emotions that you felt during an abusive situation is a common experience ...
Becoming a Safe Church for Kids

Becoming a Safe Church for Kids

10 steps to becoming a safer church for kids ...
What Do I Say To A Sexual Assault Survivor?

What Do I Say To A Sexual Assault Survivor?

Choosing a counselor should not be difficult. Here are a few things to keep in mind when selecting yours ...
nfo to Know When Seeking Counseling

Information to Know When Seeking Counseling

Choosing a counselor should not be difficult. Here are a few things to keep in mind when selecting yours ...
Suffer the Children

Developing Effective Church Policies on Child Maltreatment

Used with permission, this article by Victor Vieth from Jacob’s Hope reviews the ten stages of developing an effective child ...
Ministering to Adult Sex Offenders

Ministering to Adult Sex Offenders

Examining ten lessons from Henry Gerecke on how to minister to adult sex offenders ...
Article What Would Walter Do

What Would Walther Do?

Counselors and theologians failing to understand the dynamics of child sexual abuse cases often apply the concept of law and ...
Mathew 18

Pastoral Theology Brief: Matthew 18

A pastor is counseling a couple in his congregation. In the course of the session it’s revealed that the husband ...
Definitions of Child Abuse

Definitions of Child Abuse and Neglect

There are numerous federal and state laws that define child abuse and neglect. In determining whether or not a specific ...
Understanding and Preventing Child Sexual Abuse

Understanding and Preventing Child Sexual Abuse

Parents, grandparents and other caretakers often have many questions about speaking to their children about abuse and in otherwise keeping ...
A Lutheran Approach

A Lutheran Approach

Using the writings of Martin Luther and C.F.W. Walther, this article outlines a Christian approach to ministering to victims and ...